988 إن الرفق لا يكون في شيء إلا زانه، ولا ينزع من شيء إلا شانه
Verily, kindness is not to be found in anything but it adorns it, and it is not removed from anything but it makes it defective

عن عائشة رضي الله عنها أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: «إن الرفق لا يكون في شيء إلا زانه، ولا ينزع من شيء إلا شانه».

‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Verily, kindness is not to be found in anything but it adorns it, and it is not removed from anything but it makes it defective."

صحيح - ( رواه مسلم ). Sahih/Authentic. [Muslim]

صاحب الرفق يدرك حاجته أو بعضها أما صاحب العنف لا يدركها وإن أدركها فبمشقة.
A kind, gentile and compassionate person accomplishes what he needs to or at least part of it (in nice pleasant manner), while a violent and coarse person does not accomplish it, and even if he does, he does so with trouble and hardship.

ضرورة التحلي بالرفق، فإنه يزين المرء ويجمله في أعين الناس وعند الله -تعالى-. البعد عن العنف والشدة والغلظة؛ لأنها تشين صاحبها عند الناس وعند الله -سبحانه-.
It is necessary to be gentle, for gentleness makes us more beautiful, adorns us in the eyes of people, and raises our value in the sight of Allah Almighty. One should shun violence, harshness, and cruelty as they discredit the person in the sight of peopl